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		<title>By: Dulwich Divorcee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dulwich Divorcee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 14:22:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi lovely Jo, yes, I really think it shows people at their worst. Can&#039;t believe you are a sufferer though hon x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi lovely Jo, yes, I really think it shows people at their worst. Can&#8217;t believe you are a sufferer though hon x</p>
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		<title>By: Dulwich Divorcee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dulwich Divorcee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 14:22:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Chic, lovely to see you x</description>
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		<title>By: Dulwich Divorcee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dulwich Divorcee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 14:21:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I shall have to pop over and read your post on the subject, Hayley. thanks for coming over!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I shall have to pop over and read your post on the subject, Hayley. thanks for coming over!</p>
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		<title>By: Dulwich Divorcee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dulwich Divorcee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 14:21:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, it&#039;s very scary when it&#039;s directed at you. And often completely incomprehensible. Horrible stuff</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, it&#8217;s very scary when it&#8217;s directed at you. And often completely incomprehensible. Horrible stuff</p>
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		<title>By: Dulwich Divorcee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dulwich Divorcee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 14:20:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ooops, sorry to bring back bad memories of Eng Lit! Yes, I suppose a dash of jealousy can be a good thing ...though I think if you are a jealous type, it&#039;s hard to restrict yourself to just a dash!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ooops, sorry to bring back bad memories of Eng Lit! Yes, I suppose a dash of jealousy can be a good thing &#8230;though I think if you are a jealous type, it&#8217;s hard to restrict yourself to just a dash!</p>
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		<title>By: Jo Beaufoix</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jo Beaufoix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jun 2010 22:34:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brilliant post lovely.  You made me think.  I don&#039;t think I&#039;m a particularly jealous person, but there have been times I&#039;ve recognized it in myself and felt awful.  I love Sarah&#039;s idea of it being a warning system though, but blimey it cab be destructive can&#039;t it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brilliant post lovely.  You made me think.  I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;m a particularly jealous person, but there have been times I&#8217;ve recognized it in myself and felt awful.  I love Sarah&#8217;s idea of it being a warning system though, but blimey it cab be destructive can&#8217;t it.</p>
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		<title>By: Chic Mama</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chic Mama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 22:28:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>True...it just eats away at you doesn&#039;t it if you let it. Great thought provoking post. x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>True&#8230;it just eats away at you doesn&#8217;t it if you let it. Great thought provoking post. x</p>
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		<title>By: Hayley</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hayley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 20:25:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A few of us have written about this, unsuprisingly, myself included. I think there are many many people out there who are so confused by this mans actions, why didnt he get the help he needed and why didnt he seek it out. Is it biological or is it emotional? So many questions. Jealousy is a hideous and dangerous emotion which can go horribly wrong x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few of us have written about this, unsuprisingly, myself included. I think there are many many people out there who are so confused by this mans actions, why didnt he get the help he needed and why didnt he seek it out. Is it biological or is it emotional? So many questions. Jealousy is a hideous and dangerous emotion which can go horribly wrong x</p>
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		<title>By: Geekymummy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Geekymummy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 16:57:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Such a destructive emotion. I hate when I feel it (rarely now,) and feel afraid when it&#039;s directed at me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Such a destructive emotion. I hate when I feel it (rarely now,) and feel afraid when it&#8217;s directed at me.</p>
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		<title>By: Insomniac Mummy</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 15:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jealousy and resentment. What a potent cocktail indeed! Each one feeding the other until all other emotions are suffocated.

I think where families and wills are concerned there is always a huge possibility that someone is going to have their nose left out of joint, but to allow those feelings of jealousy and resentment to bubble over into blind unfathomable rage, well, we saw the consequences last week.

Anyone who has ever felt pangs of jealousy knows when enough is enough, what I will never understand is how Derrick Bird could let his emotions get so out of control, but I guess when you&#039;re being eaten up inside like that then your whole life becomes about that inner rage. 

Jealousy without the resentment can have murderous consequences too. You only have to look back at so called &#039;crimes of passion&#039; to see that green eyed monster at work once more.

I also think that a little bit of jealousy can sometimes be a good thing. Being envious of someone else&#039;s success can spur you to achieve more yourself.

:)

P.S That Othello quote reminded me of A-Level English Literature.....*shudder*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jealousy and resentment. What a potent cocktail indeed! Each one feeding the other until all other emotions are suffocated.</p>
<p>I think where families and wills are concerned there is always a huge possibility that someone is going to have their nose left out of joint, but to allow those feelings of jealousy and resentment to bubble over into blind unfathomable rage, well, we saw the consequences last week.</p>
<p>Anyone who has ever felt pangs of jealousy knows when enough is enough, what I will never understand is how Derrick Bird could let his emotions get so out of control, but I guess when you&#8217;re being eaten up inside like that then your whole life becomes about that inner rage. </p>
<p>Jealousy without the resentment can have murderous consequences too. You only have to look back at so called &#8216;crimes of passion&#8217; to see that green eyed monster at work once more.</p>
<p>I also think that a little bit of jealousy can sometimes be a good thing. Being envious of someone else&#8217;s success can spur you to achieve more yourself.</p>
<p> <img src='http://www.dulwichdivorcee.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>P.S That Othello quote reminded me of A-Level English Literature&#8230;..*shudder*</p>
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